THINGS YOU MOST KNOW ABOUT YOUR PARTNER BEFORE MARRIAGE.
I want to start this lecture with the things about your partner you most know before going into a serious relationship. This is for the benefit of the singles in the group.
Most marriages begin to fail right from the start because of wrong choice of partner. This is very fundamental to any marriage relationship.
First of all you most know who you are about to get married to. The question is, how? Some people just fall in love with anybody they meet at work, Church, market, cinema, party etc and the decide to get married. Marriage is a life time commitment and so should not be treated with levity. You must know the biological make up of your partner in form of thier blood group, and genotype. You and your partner must as a matter of necessity go for a blood test to excertain your blood group and your genotype. AA genotype can get married to AA, likewise to AS. But if your genotype is SS please do not marry an AS or SS. If you do so, you are going to endenger the life of your Children as you will end of giving birth to SS which carries the sickle cell anamie.
The other important thing to know is the family background of your partner. This aspect has a direct bearing on the duo if not we’ll handled from start. You most know the mother of the girl or the father you want to get married to. Watch out the behavioral pattern of your would be parent’s-in-law. 99% of the mothers character is transferred to her daughter’s. If your fiance’s mother is the domineering type. The type that does not respect her husband, there is every tendecy that her daughter will behave like her. You should ask yourself, can I handle this type of woman? If you a a man with a soft heart, this kind of woman may not be suitable for you
For the ladies, if your guys father is the type that does not have respect or have regard for his wife. If he is the type that beats his wife and does not take care of his wife and children, my dear, his son may be like him. You might be walking on a hot coal if you go ahead to marry him.
There are other things to look out for when and before entering into any Marriage relationship.
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