I decided to write this posts on the need for couples to love and respect each other so as to stay together for a long as they leave.
This is necessitated by the high death rate of men in our society. We have more widows than widowers. Have you ever stopped to ask yourself why?
I know by now you will be saying. What the heck is wrong with that? Death is a natural phenomenon. Yes you are right. Death is real and can come to any one anytime. But some death are preventable. Some people die out of their own carelessness or that of others.
Matrimonial death if I may call it that, especially an early one could be prevented if only couples would only learn to love and respect each other.
What do I mean by this? I will tell you a story to buttress my point.
There is a relation of mine, from my husband’s side though, who got married to a woman he truly loved but unfortunately, the woman he married did not love him as much as he did.
They had seven children but amidst this their married life was rocked with so much crises all because of the disrespect the woman had for the man. The woman was alleged to have slept with her husband’s friend and some other men like that and that brought so much trouble for the man. Problem in the sense that the man got to know of these and confronted her with it. The woman neither accepted nor denied the allegation but this really made the man to be disturbed and depressed. He became sick and was diagnosed of high blood pressure. This became the genesis of a whole lot and series of problems and sickness which trailed the remaining part of his life.
Things became tough for him. His business crumbled and nothing he tried to do worked. He had to leave the city and returned to his village. After a short while he passed on. This wouldn’t have happened if his wife loved and respected him equally.
I want to use this opportunity to advise all married women that they should please stop sleeping with other men aside from their husbands. You might say what is my business? Am not trying to poke nose into other people’s affairs. Am just offering an honest advice. Am concerned with helping and building marriages. Am concerned with the future of our children from broken homes. Their future will be secured if homes and marriages are secured, if married men and women would truly love, respect and cherish each other, if couples will join hands together to train up their children.
Back to the main stay for today. I would want to divulge a deep secret and fact to married women who have extra marital affairs.
Talking from the spiritual stand point, when you sleep with other men, you are bringing bad luck to your husband. You are sending him backwards into poverty where he came from. You are inviting doom on your husband and family. Take it or leave it. This is spiritual truth you have to know and keep in mind. Mnay a women are not aware of this deep and spiritual truth. secure your husbands luck, his life, and that of your family generally’
Let me present another scenario to you. This are actually my parents. They got married 50 years ago, had seven of us, love and respect each other, never for a day have we their children seen them quarrel not to talk of fighting. Growing up, I had always admired my parents and wished to have a happy and peaceful home. They brought us up with love and respect for each other. My siblings and I watch each other’s back. This is because of the kind of training our parents gave us.
This goes a long way to portray the fact that it behooves for couples to stay together for long to properly bring up their children, they must sincerely love, cherish and respect each other. NO extra marital affairs. this applies to the man.
Men when you sleep with other women, You are spiritually sending yourselves backwards. You are also bringing bad luck to yourselves. You do not know the kind of Negative aura the lady carries around. Some ladies move about with so much negativity that when you are with her, you will only be jamming with bad luck. Nothing you put your hand into will work properly. You can actually find out when a lady has a negative aura hovering around her.
That will be story for another day.