A woman (Eve) as we learnt from the Bible was created out of a man’s rib (Adam). When God created man, He saw that the man was lonely, he made him to fall asleep, and He took one of his ribs and made the woman.

A woman is an embodiment of beauty, character and brain created to be a companion, and a helper for the man.  Therefore  it is the duty of a woman to keep and maintain the home. while it i is the duty and responsibility of the man to love cherish and respect this wonderful gift of God called ‘woman.’

In recent times, a lot of ladies have made a caricature of womanhood. Most of them lack self-worth and self-esteem. They throw morals and caution to the wind and parade themselves in an appalling and pitiable manner all in the name of materialism. The popular saying of the ‘preservation of a woman’s pride’ has been relegated to the background.

Most of our young ladies are selling themselves so cheaply to married men all in the name of money. They are prepared to go nude to attract rich men. As you walk along the streets all you will see from most girls, (even some married women are not left out of this) are a pair of boobs struggling with their blouses, popping and juggling up and down begging in the name of God who created them, to be covered up. The boobs are protesting.

Waow! ‘Boobs on protest’ this would make a wonderful headline wouldn’t it?

I tell you confidently, the boobs are ashamed and angry with their owner for shamelessly exposing them to the public. If they could talk, they would have screamed their owners head off. Yes, if am to be a breast today that is exactly what I will do if my owner exposes me shamelessly. Please don’t laugh. Am dead serious about this.

It is most baffling how some of our girls wear clothes that reveal their body contour and exposes their private belongings. The things that are supposed to be private have been made public. Modesty, has been thrown into the labyrinth of hell. Skimpy, transparent and body revealing cloths are the order of the day. As a matter of fact, any girl that does not wear them this days is referred  to as a ‘juu’ girl.

What is the world turning into? The men themselves are not helping matters. Married men who are supposed to command respect, go about messing themselves and these girls up. I see old men messing around with girls who are their daughter’s age. what a shame i must say.

Married men should learn to stay within their limits. Take care of your wives and children. Stop wasting your money on these girls who are only after your money. They are up to no good. they will destroy your home if given the chance.

I see men who get easily carried away by the sight of boobs, as boobs themselves. And what do I mean by these. I will surely take you through.

Boobs means a variety of things. It could mean a woman’s breast. Taking it further, it means, an idiot, a dummy, pinhead, numbskull, or a stupid mistake.

On this back drop, I will say that it is only a ‘boob that can fall for boobs’. I leave the rest to your judgment.

A piece of advice to our young girl out there. You are only ruining your chances of getting a good husband or even marrying at all by your conduct, by exposing yourselves and flaunting your boobs. No sane man would ever want to do anything with girls who parade their bodies shamelessly. Men want decent and well trained up girls for marriage. Don’t be deceived, you are only a toy, a play thing in their hands and as such won’t be taken seriously.

You are wonderfully and beautifully made. So carry yourselves with pride and dignity and men will treat you with the respect you deserve.

This advice, I give to my children, my female staff and any young girl that is around me. A woman’s pride can only be preserved by her conduct in public, her carriage, the way she dresses and her neatness. So you have to strive to uphold these virtues. To be treated with love and respect not only by men but by all and sundry.

I came across a similar post by the star actress Genevive Nnaji on this same topic. Here is her view on this:

‘No man ever wants a crazy wife. It is only guys who wants a crazy girlfriend. So do not be deceived. A guy who wants you to party hard every week, expose your bosom, wear skimpy clothes, flashy makeups and getting down with 11 bottles of bear ….. Will NEVER marry you. A guy who talks dirty and wants sex everywhere with you when he is not married to you will see you as a bed machine when the time for marriage eventually comes.

Have you ever wondered why some of these guys go for the timid and local girls when it comes to marriage, and dump the sexy, classy and gorgeous looking ones? A man wants more than beauty for marriage. Those boobs you are flaunting everywhere will eventually sag someday’

That is if it has not sagged already oooo.

‘So invest on yourself. A man really wants a place he can call a home, a woman who is modest and can take care of his children and parents. One with whom the children can confide in. the one he can take major decisions with and tell all his fears. He wants a wife, mother and sister all in one.

I am not saying that looking good is bad. In fact looking good is good business, but you have to look beyond that and pay more attention to spiritual things that keep a home. If you truly want to attract a decent man. Please do not let any man use you to pass time. At the same time, don’t settle for a guy who is not God fearing. Don’t even think of marrying a guy who is not having the Holy Spirit in him. No matter how much money he spends on you, no matter how much he has. Don’t even dream of being engaged to him if he is not closer to god. It is for your own good because divorce, hypertension and stoke has been the outcome of many women who refuse to heed this advice.

May God grant you the wisdom to be the woman a man truly needs’

Yes this is Genevieve’s take on this matter and I lend my voice to hers in saying

The only trap or juju you can use on any man that works 100% is your good and decent manners.

Girls please act and behave respectfully and responsibly to attract a good and responsible man who will, cherish and respect you for all your life..


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Juliet Nnadozie is a peace advocate, a character moulder, and a home builder. She is also a script writer, a movie director, producer, editor and an actress. She is the CEO Passions Global Media; an outfit that is into talent hunt and childrens drama productions.
julietsc Administrator
Juliet Nnadozie is a peace advocate, a character moulder, and a home builder. She is also a script writer, a movie director, producer, editor and an actress. She is the CEO Passions Global Media; an outfit that is into talent hunt and childrens drama productions.

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